My Story
Hi, I’m Laura and I wasn’t always a dating coach.
Before this work called me, I was a care worker, nanny, police call- handler and English tutor,
and once an aspiring lawyer- living what looked
like a “normal” life. Then one day, in the space
of three weeks, everything fell apart.
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An early midlife crisis sent me searching
for answers, and I ended up swapping routine
for a decade of adventure with just a backpack,
then a van, then a donkey-finally landing in wild,
soulful Portugal.
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Through all the journeys, I had my share of love stories and heartbreaks, each teaching me more
about men, relationships, and ultimately, myself.
I even founded an off-grid community, learning
to lead and love, both practically and spiritually.
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​But I don't consider myself just spiritual,
I keep one foot firmly rooted in reality.
That’s shaped how I help women like you.
Women who crave a love that’s as soulful as it is real,
and the tools to make it last.
​​You’ve done the healing,
listened to the podcasts,
read the books.
And yet...
love still feels confusing.
I get it. I lived it.
(Read the full story here)
​​For years, I was completely disconnected
from my own body.
I didn’t understand my nervous system.
And I didn’t even know it mattered!
Meditation made me restless, I felt no end to therapy cycles and I couldn’t find a single “tool” that worked
for my fast, active mind and deeply emotional nature.
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When it came to dating, I was just as lost. I’d get excited about someone, pour my energy in,
lose myself in the process…
and then watch it fizzle
into the same old disappointment.
Every man seemed to represent someone from my past
- a parent, an ex - and without realising it,
I was replaying the same dynamic over and over again.
Dating drained me.
It made me question my worth.
I'd overthink messages and feel tension in my stomach
if he didn't reply quickly enough.
I'd find myself not speaking up in moments
I felt uncomfortable
or freeze from inappropriate comments.
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That’s why the work I teach now is so different.
I developed tools that actually work for me: simple powerful tools
that regulate my body in real time and keep me connected
to myself even when emotions are high and that suit my fast-working mind.
I learned how to use the dating process itself
as a kind of tunnel for self-development:
a place to practise, to level up, and to heal patterns as they show up.
I still have men show up who trigger me of the past, make my gut twist,
but the difference is that now I know how to confidently move though it.
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And dating stops becoming a hassle
or draining and starts giving energy
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And that’s the shift I help women make, so every interaction, romantic or not, leaves you more alive, not less.
My Method
Here’s how I support my clients to reconnect with themselves, transform how they date and relate, and finally experience
the kind of love they’ve always craved:
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Integral, trauma-informed coaching: instead of getting stuck in surface-level fixes, we go to the root, so you stop replaying the same old dynamics and start building the kind
of connection where you feel seen, cherished,
and at home in yourself.
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Shadow work & inner child healing: when you don’t get
a reply for hours, you won’t spiral – you’ll know how to
soothe the little girl who feels forgotten.
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Feminine energy embodiment: learn to authentically
and magnetically express your truth whilst understanding men better than 99% of women
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Nervous system work: He says, “I need space,” and instead
of panicking or over-explaining, you breathe, stay grounded, and hold your own heart.
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Human Design & attachment integration: you’ll ditch generic dating advice and start choosing what truly fits you
– so clarity, ease, and alignment come naturally.
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Somatic practices & communication: you’ll stop gaslighting your own intuition – and start trusting the signals early, so you can respond wisely, not react emotionally.
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This isn’t about being “healed enough.”
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It’s about dating, and living as your grounded, magnetic, unapologetic self. The woman who plays, feels, and loves without dimming her fire.
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And has fun along the way!
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​​​If you’re ready to end the overthinking, stop chasing crumbs, and claim love that’s both soul-deep and spine-tingling (without performing or playing small) it would be my honour to work with you.
Send me a message and let’s find your next steps.
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With love
